If you’re finding things hard this winter

During the winter months, the colder weather and shorter days can affect how we may be feeling. If you’re struggling, we’ve gathered some tips and resources to help you cope this winter.

As the seasons change and we settle into new routines, it is normal that the shorter days and colder weather may affect your mental health. You’re not alone in feeling like this. There are all sorts of reasons you may find this time of year difficult, and it’s OK to feel this way.

During these months, it is more important than ever to look after ourselves. Spending time with nature, taking time to do things we enjoy, finding new routines and reaching out to others can help you cope if you are feeling low.

We’ve gathered some tips and resources to help you make the most of the winter months.

Find your balance

Try a relaxation exercise. Sometimes something simple like controlled breathing can help us feel calmer. Muscle relaxation exercises can also help reduce feelings of stress or anxiety. If you can, find a quiet space and try out the exercises we’ve linked to. They’re easy to memorise and can be practised almost anywhere.
Set short-term goals. If you are struggling with feelings of uncertainty, planning your day or week ahead may help you stay focused on the things you can control. Breaking up the things you need to do into a list of smaller tasks can help if you are feeling overwhelmed or unmotivated.
Be kind to yourself. This year was a difficult year, and it’s normal if you are feeling tired or burned-out. It can be hard not to compare ourselves to others, especially on social media. It is important to take time to rest and look after yourself.

Reach out

Spend time with loved ones when you feel able. It’s important to stay connected with others if you can, during the winter months. Try not to isolate yourself all season; being around people we know and trust may be helpful. Surround yourself with people you love and trust but know that it’s OK to put yourself first and say no to any plans if you’re not feeling up to it.
Talk about how you’re feeling. Talking can help put things into perspective and help us feel less isolated. It may help you feel more positive about the future. It can be hard to reach out but talking to a trusted friend or family member is something we’d encourage you to try, however you can.
You are never alone. If you don’t have family or friends close by or don’t feel like there’s anyone you can talk to, Samaritans volunteers are here for you. Call free, day or night, on 116 123 or email [email protected]. More information can be found on our contact a Samaritan page.

Take time for yourself

Make time for something you enjoy. It could be doing something creative, watching a favourite movie or visiting your local park or garden for half an hour in the sun. Even stepping away and taking a five-minute break over a cup of tea could help you relax and recharge.
Take a break from the news and social media. If you find it hard to stay offline, prioritising other activities can help you switch it off. Try turning off your notifications or leaving your phone in another room for a few hours. If your job involves lots of screen time, taking a break away from your devices after work might help to give you some headspace to relax. Read our practical tips if you find yourself ‘doomscrolling’ social media for tips on how to make your social media a safer space.

Spend time outdoors

Enjoy nature. Whatever way you can, taking some time to enjoy the outdoors can have a positive effect on your mood. If you aren't able to leave the house right now, make sure your curtains or blinds are open to let the natural light in.
Wrap up warm. Enjoying time outdoors doesn’t have to stop at this time of year. In fact, it’s more important than ever during these months to try and spend time outside during the day. If you can, take some time to enjoy the changing seasons or crisp mornings.
Get active. Exercise can help to reduce feelings of anxiety and other difficult feelings. There are lots of different ways to be active, whether you are starting off with a brisk walk or trying a free online exercise class indoors. Setting goals with others is a great way to stay motivated. Try teaming up with others in your household or taking part in a challenge.