Listening volunteers are there for anyone who needs someone. Every year, they spend over 900,000 hours responding to calls for help.
Listening volunteers can change the course of someone’s life. That’s where you come in.
Find out if being a listening volunteer is right for you.
Help people at difficult times
Every 10 seconds we answer a call for help. Every 10 seconds we can help someone turn their life around. As a listening volunteer you get the chance to make a real difference to someone’s future. As a volunteer from the military community, you’ll also get the chance to directly support people from that community.
Get support every step of the way
You’ll receive full training to prepare you for the kinds of conversations you’ll have. And when you start out, you’ll have a mentor with you, to give you confidence you’re doing the right thing.
Learn to do something valuable
You’ll gain a range of new skills and the confidence to use them, including the ability to understand people and manage difficult conversations. Many employers value these kinds of skills.
What it’s like being a listening volunteer
- It’s always different and always interesting – no two conversations are the same.
- It feels like a privilege to have people confiding in you.
- You’re never on your own, and there’s a fun, supportive atmosphere in our branches.
- You can offer support on the phone or email.
- You can take a break between conversations whenever you need to.
- Spending a few hours helping other people can make you feel good about yourself.
“As a military spouse, I know I can join the local Samaritans branch and have a ready-made community around me.”
Polly, military spouse and Samaritans volunteer
Who are we looking for?
Open minded
You’re willing to understand someone else’s point of view, even if it’s different from yours.
Supportive
You’ll help maintain a friendly and supportive atmosphere.
Empathetic
You’re comfortable with your own feelings and able to share another person’s feelings.
Discreet
You’ll be careful with any information you're told, and never share it outside Samaritans.
Accepting
You won’t discriminate against anyone for any reason, including gender, race, sexuality, disability or political views.
Honest
You’re able to tell the truth even when it’s difficult – for example about the type of support we can offer people, even when they want more.
Can anyone be a listening volunteer?
Samaritans welcomes applications from a wide range of applicants from the military community – serving personnel, veterans and family members.
Anyone has it in them to be a Samaritan. You won’t need to have previous experience or qualifications, but you will need to be non-judgemental and accepting of others.
It doesn’t necessarily matter if you’ve gone through difficult times yourself, what matters is that you want to help people – all kinds of people, from all walks of life.
You will need to be 18 or over, and because we’ll invest in you (our training is really high quality), you need to see this not just as a short-term role but something you’re likely to do more long term.
Serving police officers and special constables can’t be listening volunteers because they have a duty to report crimes, which might conflict with our policies, although they can volunteer in any other role.
In order to safeguard our volunteers and callers the listening role requires a criminal record check. If you have a criminal record it won't necessarily stop you from becoming a volunteer. We’ll consider each case individually. For more information you can read our Criminal Records Vetting Policy.
And we have zero tolerance for anyone who tries to take advantage of the vulnerable people who contact us.
What kinds of conversations might I have?
People of all kinds contact us about all kinds of problems. It could be depression, loneliness, stressful situations at home or work, debt, abuse. We listen, give them a chance to get it out, and talk things through with them. Among callers from the general population, only about 1 in 5 calls are from people feeling suicidal, and the vast majority of these aren’t actively planning to end their lives. This rises to around 1 in 3 calls received from the military community – with the vast majority of callers coming from the veteran community.
What sort of person is a listening volunteer?
How much time will I need to give?
Samaritans is proud to offer its services 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. We rely on our volunteers to offer their time to ensure we can achieve this. Listening volunteers typically do one shift of about 3 to 4 hours a week and a regular shift during the night. The exact amount of time depends on the branch, but we really rely on everyone to ‘do their bit’ so that we can be there for people when they need us.
Will I need to volunteer at night?
Our volunteers often say that the conversations they have during the night are the ones they feel have made the biggest difference. We rely on our volunteers to ensure we can be there when we’re most needed – and often they need us most at night when there’s nowhere else to go. A night shift is only usually 4 - 6 hours every 4 - 8 weeks and the expectation of night shifts is different across our branches. We'll cover your travel expenses so you can get home safely.
“I have this unique opportunity to spend the evening supporting someone who may really need me.”
Alex, Cpl in the RAF and Samaritans volunteer
Samaritans light up the night
What support and training will I get?
Training
You’ll be given high quality training to prepare you for the role. This takes place over 5-10 sessions depending on if it’s being run as group sessions face to face or online, along with some digital topics and usually takes place during weekday evenings or weekends. It typically takes a few months before you’re ready to start volunteering.
You’ll also receive ongoing training, such as the Armed Forces Awareness module, several times a year to keep building your skills.
Mentoring
Towards the end of the training, you’ll be given a mentor – an experienced volunteer who will be with you during your first few shifts.
They’ll give you feedback and support, answer your questions, and help develop your confidence.
Support
You’ll never be on your own as a listening volunteer. And there’s always time to talk through anything.
Sharing what’s happened with other Samaritans is a good way of dealing with anything you find difficult. (Our volunteers don’t share anything outside of Samaritans and that’s really important).
How do I become a listening volunteer?
After making an enquiry you’ll have an interview as part of our selection process, and if you’re selected, you’ll attend our in-depth training.
- Complete the enquiry form online
You’ll go through some statements about the listening role and then complete our online enquiry form - it's quick we just need a few details. - Have an interview
This is an opportunity for us to get to know you and for you and us to find out if the role is right for you. - Start your training
Our training covers everything you’ll need to feel comfortable in the role.
Our recruitment and training is all done by volunteers. It can take a few months from when you make your first enquiry, but we value everyone who is interested in volunteering with us. We have social media guidelines for our volunteers which includes asking trainee volunteers not to disclose they are volunteers until they are fully trained. We would therefore suggest that you don’t mention on social media that you are applying to become a volunteer. This protects you from being asked to help someone when you may not have completed the training.
Enquire now
Enquiring won't take long, but make sure you've read everything on this page first.
When you get to ‘Where did you find out about volunteering with us?’ on the application form, please remember to select the ‘Military recruitment campaign’ option in the drop-down menu.